If you are anything like me, it’s hard for me to accept help. I don’t know why! Is it because I think I can do it myself? I should do it myself? I think I am a perfectionist (Virgo) and think it has to be perfect and I am the only one that can do it perfectly. I AM NOT!
So my childhood friend, I’ll call her Dee for now, came over today and seriously, she is a workhorse. She loves the sun, heat, and hard work. She is also so incredibly motivated. She gets me motivated even on the days I just want to lay around. I have a huge yard. Even though I did help doing the front lawn, she cut the entire lawn, TWICE! My grass was very long and the guy that usually does it took a vacation (how dare he???) I am so very thankful for her.
My neighbor, John is also one of those people. I just felt funny asking him for help all the time, I don’t know why. Last week during the storm, I finally asked him for help, when Marianne and Google just couldn’t. My beloved hot tub stopped heating the water. I have to get rid of it, but how to drain it? Internet was no help. But I had an idea, and so did John. It worked beautifully. Hot tub is drained, ready for its replacement (this week hopefully I can put the new one together). He also fixed several other things around the house that needed fixing. I am also very thankful for him.
If these two people hadn’t offered help, I doubt I would’ve asked them, because it might mean I’m not perfect. But I am so glad they did. I am forever grateful for wonderful, helpful friends that are placed in my life.
So, if you are struggling with something, it’s okay to ask for help! I think maybe it humbles us just a bit too, which is usually good, to make sure we don’t forget we need others. So, if you need help with something and need some help, ask! There are still people out there who are willing to help, and everyone feels good afterwards.
I wish everyone a terrific night and a fabulous tomorrow!
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